Stimulate the G-Spot With a Clitoral G-Spot Stimulator
Stimulating the G-spot feels different for every woman. It takes time, patience, and experimentation to find what feels good to you, whether through penetration or sex toys.
And here’s the rub: The G-spot doesn’t actually exist as a separate spot—it’s more like an internal extension of Clitoral G-Spot Stimulator the clitoris. Women who can orgasm from penetration only rarely require G-spot stimulation.
The G-Spot
The G-spot (technically it’s all the clitoris, but let’s go with G for short) is a sensitive area that can be stimulated in several ways. One of the most popular methods involves stroking the clitoris with your fingers or a sex toy and, if you’re lucky enough, having a partner stimulate the clitoral glands as part of foreplay.
Another way to reach the G spot is through a variety of sexual positions, like doggy style or woman-on-top. Kerner says oral stimulation to the G-spot — sucking on your partner’s penis, for instance — can also feel super pleasurable. The G-spot tissue engorges and becomes bigger with arousal and can be massaged using your own hands or a sex toy. Many G-spot vibrators feature a curved end to easily access this area and use textures, bumps and ridges to intensify pleasure.
A great G-spot toy is Womanizer’s Duo, a clitoral suction stimulator that offers clitoral suction with intense internal vibrations. Its controls are easy to operate and testers raved that it feels soft on the skin and has a ribbed surface for enhanced sensation. Plus, it has Smart Silence technology so that it only turns on when in contact with the body and turns off when it loses touch. It’s available for under PS20 and, according to our testers, gives pricier models a run for their money.
The Clitoris
You may be more familiar with penetrative toys like dildos and internal vibes, but clitoral stimulators can also offer a variety of sensations that are perfect for exploring this pleasure nub. As a general rule, clitoral stimulation should be conducted with a lubricant to reduce friction and to allow the clit to absorb vibrations for even more pleasure.
If you aren’t accustomed to playing with your clitoris, it can feel intimidating or uncomfortable at first. It’s important to remember that the clit is an incredibly sensitive structure and it takes time to find the right way to play with it. The clitoris has 8,000 nerve endings, which is double the amount found in a penis. As a result, it can be sensitive to pressure, especially if you aren’t used to playing with it or if you have a lot of nerves to stimulate.
To avoid discomfort or irritation, Blue recommends spreading your labia wide enough to expose your clitoral ridge. Then, using a quality lubricant, apply a light seal over your clit and position the toy. With a variety of intensities and patterns to choose from, you’re sure to find a clitoral stimulator that feels good for you. The ROMP Switch, for example, pampers your clitoris with unique waves of air pressure and is skin-friendly and IPX4 waterproof.
The Urethra
In addition to being highly pleasurable in its own right, urethral sounding can add excitement to masturbation and arouse the G-spot like nothing else. It’s especially good if you’re bored with regular masturbation. You can do it alone or with a partner, and the sensations of rubbing a well-lubricated toy against your urethra are unlike any other feeling in the world.
There are many different urethral toys on the market, from small toy cars to large, curved “sounds” that can reach far down into your urethra. Some are made of stainless steel so they can be sterilized and others may be plastic or even a glass thermometer. It’s best to use a lubricant when using any of these toys, particularly the longer sounds that can be difficult to insert.
It takes time to master the skill of inserting urethral toys. It’s a good idea to start with smaller, shorter toys that are more suitable for beginners and work your way up to bigger ones. It’s also important to practice regularly and make sure that the toy is comfortable in the urethral canal. Some men may find their urethras expand with regular sounding and can begin to use larger, more textured toys. This can increase the pleasure but it’s essential to keep a safe limit on the size of the toys used for urethral stimulation to prevent damage.
The Pelvic Floor
A lot of people think of the G spot as a single, pea-sized nub in the vagina. But it’s really part of a larger clitoral network and can vary from person to person in location and shape. This is why it can be tricky to find—but once it is, it can feel super pleasurable to stimulate. The best way to reach it is by having your partner stimulate the clitoris and the G spot at the same time with his fingers or a vibrator, says Kerner. He recommends trying different sex positions including doggy style and woman-on-top for maximum pleasure.
Another way to stimulate the G spot is to gently insert two or three lubricated fingers into your vagina and bend them back in a “come hither” motion against the front wall. This pressure and repetitive stimulation can feel super orgasmic (although it will not necessarily cause a squirt). Some people like to try stroking the area with their penis or a sex toy, as well. It can be good to experiment with what feels right—and remember that the sensation will vary from day to day.
There are a few pelvic floor muscle trainers on the market that use electrical stimulation to strengthen your muscles. But it’s important adult product manufacturer to check with your doctor before using these devices, especially if you have hypertonic or tight pelvic muscles. Too much tightness can be just as bad as too little, and over-tight muscles should be treated with release, down-training and relaxation.