めぐみ How to Play With a Drildo
Many women use dildo, which are sex toys that look like penises, for vaginal or anal penetration and stimulation. They can also be used for masturbation or with sex partners.
To get the most out of your dildo, lube it before playing. Start with foreplay and gently caress your anus or clitoris.
Sex Toys
There are a variety of ways to play with your dildo, whether you’re the partner or the one being penetrated. Many dildos come with different bases to inspire new kinds of sensations, like suction cups that grip the shaft and can be used in the shower (or by yourself), or strap-on harnesses along the pelvis for hands-free vaginal and anal penetration. There are also dildos with dual ends or even multiple elongated heads, for a textured orgasm or a simulated clitoral stroke.
Pleasure-based sex educator and sex-positivity advocate Lateef Taylor recommends choosing a dildo made from nonporous materials like silicone, thermoplastic elastomer or ABS plastic, over porous dildo or leather-like products that are breeding grounds for bacteria and may contain harmful chemicals such as phthalates. If you’re going to use it for anal or vaginal penetration, make sure the dildo has a pronounced head so you can easily hit your G-spot and anal opening.
The sex toy category is vast, and not all dildos vibrate. For those who prefer a non-vibrating toy, look for toys with a crank so you can turn them after they’re inserted to add movement or enhance anal stimulation. There’s also an entire category of curved or angled dildos that can offer clitoral and vaginal stimulation together, which is a psychologically stimulating experience for both partners.
Foreplay
When using a dildo, foreplay is an important step to increase pleasure. For women, this can include manual stimulation with the toy in a variety of positions. The key is to discover what pleasures you the most and to keep experimenting. You might find that intense anal penetration gives you full body, shaking orgasms or that running the head of your dildo along the outside of your vagina is deeply satisfying. For men, this can include prostate massage and even scrotal play.
Many dildos feature textured and/or bulbed tips for g-spot, anal and prostate stimulation. They can also have a flared base for anal play and strap-on play. It’s important to choose a dildo that is an appropriate size for your pelvic structure and arousal level. Getting too big can be painful and may lead to a tear. It’s best to start small and work up to a larger size.
When using a dildo, it is essential to use lubricant. Water-based lube or silicone based lubricant works best. Apply a liberal amount to the dildo and its shaft to ease insertion. You can also use lube on the inner and outer labia to help with insertion as well. A dildo can be inserted using both hands or with the dominant hand, but you should always insert it slowly to avoid injury.
Penetration
As with any sexual activity, dildo use is most pleasurable when used as part of an intimate play routine. Foreplay with a dildo can be as simple or elaborate as you choose – rub the lubricated toy on your inner thighs or anus for stimulating sensations, or try running it against your clitoris or vaginal opening.
You can also use your dildo for self-pleasure by gently thrusting it in and out. A dildo’s shape can add to this stimulation; for example, some have a more pronounced head for a more realistic feel or come with an attachable clitoral stimulator. There are also dildos available that can rotate, flutter or vibrate to further heighten pleasure. Some even penetrate vaginally or anally, allowing you to take care of both penetrative sex and masturbation at the same time.
If you’re experimenting with dildos for the first time, experts agree to start slow and go easy, especially when using a larger toy. “Take it slowly at first and apply a lot of lubricant,” suggests Deysach. “If you’re experiencing pain or discomfort, stop and try a different angle or amount of pressure.” A curved dildo can be especially rewarding, since it stimulates the G-spot more thoroughly. For an added challenge, you can even try rocking the toy by moving it back and forth in a circular motion.
Cleanup
Many sex toys are non-porous and can be cleaned with soap and water. A thorough cleaning and rinsing before re-using is the best way to keep your dildo healthy. In addition, a toy should always be dried completely before storing, says sexuality doula and sex educator Ev’Yan Whitney.
A quick look at the Internet will reveal an overwhelming amount of conflicting or confusing advice about how to clean a dildo and other sex toys. In general, avoid abrasive cleaners like steel wool or a wire brush and any product that contains bleach or alcohol, as these can be harsh and damage the toy.
For a good general clean, a gentle soap with warm water works great. A sex toy cleanser can also help, though it’s important to read the label before using one. Many of these products Dildo Manufacturers come in sprays, gels or wipes and are used similarly to soap. They aren’t as effective as washing a toy thoroughly, but can be useful in emergencies or when you’re on the go.
If you’re shopping for a new dildo, look for a non-porous material, like silicone, glass, or stainless steel, suggests Adam & Eve. Porous sex toys can hold harmful bacteria and are more likely to break down over time.